Thursday, June 21, 2012

Dakwah muslims and muallaf are difference..ALERT!

ASSALAMUALAIKUM .

How are you my friends? May Allah giving you well-health and excellence-iman day by day. In shaa Allah.

So,what is the story-morry today. Nothing. Just a little advice about approaching muslims and muallaf. Act,who is muslim? I AM ! Muslims are those ppl who are in Islam religion. Muallaf ? Someone who are new in Islam, which in simple way to tranlate it is by those who are revert into Islam.

And you know what , all of us, either muslims or muallaf, we are all the same. In Islam. Like siblings(saudara la...). But,still there are new in Islam, so they might not so understand with rules in Islam like wearing hijab,praying,fasting and so on. And even SOME of non-muslims might think praying 5 times a day, fasting in month of Ramadhan and others are such burden. We as muslims might find it simple and understand Islam very well. (NOT ALL, i think) because we had done those for the rest of our lives,ayte? But, muallaf are not. They might get threatening with many variables of ways that might loss their faith towards Islam. From family,friends,and people around them. Who knows? We as muslims do not having many difficulties in doing so many things because we are living in peacefull(except for the countries that getting war). But, they do.They have to pray secretly and many things.

When we are going back to Sirah Nabawiyyah. Our prophet,Muhammad SAW, are spreading Islam secretly in the beginning. Do you find that is simple? Sumayyah, Said Abu Waqqas and Bilal bin Rabbah...They have to keep their iman from their parents and masters.. Do you still think it was easy?

But,why... We as muslims are making them in difficulties..
Told them to wear hijabs and so on.. Follow sunnah strictly. Blablabla.. They are not common in those stuff yet..Just do understand them. It is the same when you are go to Australia, Korea, India or other places that are not familiar to you. Without other ppl direct guidance, you would not know where the place ,ayte? Same goes to muallaf. But,belief me.. Their Aqidah much more than us, who are muslims since born.

I wasnt rejected sunnah . I accept them and try to do them little by little. But, just make it slow to muallaf in this part.. I think doing the wajib one was enough for them as beginners. After they had familiar to Islam,then try to approach them with sunnah slowly. It is much better. 

I was becoming very sensative when ppl try to judge muallaf in the same way as born-muslims. Give them some time ayte? Changes can be made slowly as long as they istiqamah. Dakwah to already muslims and muallaf was way to DIFFRENCE okay. As an example, if Ustaz or Ustazah saying that women should wear purdah because it might bring fitnah. I can accept this advice for already muslims or 20 years muallaf(muslims la kan), but this advice wasnt very suitable for 2-3 weeks muallaf(beginners one). We just dont want them to fell that Islam is burden. Aurat for women with non-mahram are all part of body except face and palm Eventhough in most hadis sahih said that face and palm are also aurat,but there are 2 qaul from most of the hadis,which are all parts of the body and the second on is every part except face and palm(unless it bring fitnah).FULLSTOP. 

Comparing muslims and muallaf is not the same as comparing non-muslims and kafir.
Who are we try to judge others to become kafr? Are we god?Nope ayte.So,better stay on your line. 

One question,then I shut my mouth .. ooopss . stop from typing.

Are those in the past like Abu Bakar RA, Uthman RA, Umar RA and others from the past are called to be muallaf? ( I give the common definition about mullaf as state above) Try to think it first..

Thats'all..Allahu'alam.Wassalam.(^-^)







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